Modern archaeologists dispute parts of the Biblical tradition, the latest thinking being that the Israelites emerged from a dramatic social transformation that took place in the people of the central hill country of Canaan around 1200 BCE, with no signs of violent invasion or even of peaceful infiltration of a clearly defined ethnic group from elsewhere.
The Philistines, part of Sea Peoples of Southern Europe, arrived and mingled with the local population, and according to Biblical tradition, the United Kingdom of Israel was established in 1020 BCE and split within a century to form the northern Kingdom of Israel, and the southern Kingdom of Judah.
There is a variation of the Pareto Principle that states that the top 80% of the most attractive women are sleeping with the top 20% of the most attractive men. And keep in mind, attractive for a woman allows for a great deal of self-improvement for any given man who may perceive himself falling short in simple physical attributes.
In 70 CE, Titus sacked Jerusalem, resulting in the dispersal of the city's Jews and Christians to Yavne and Pella.The region became part of the Neo-Assyrian Empire from c.740 BCE, which was itself replaced by the Neo-Babylonian Empire in c. A war with Egypt culminated in 586 BCE when Jerusalem was destroyed by the Babylonian king Nebuchadnezzar II and the local leaders were deported to Babylonia, only to be allowed to return under the Achaemenid Empire.There is a variation of the Pareto Principle that states that the top 80% of the most attractive women are sleeping with the top 20% of the most attractive men. I think it's the women and men who are most desirable, which may well be that 80 - 20, who are/were dating the most.Do you (I mean men only please) find this to be true from your observations of growing up and dating. It likely has to do with self-esteem, financial security, future outlook, and social and religious ideologies.