As shocked as you might have been, it seems to me that he did you both a favour by ending it and moving on before someone got hurt.Was it wrong that you didn’t get into a major lip-lock with him on that date instead of offering your cheek? You should never do something that you don’t feel right about. According to women lose 90% of their eggs by age 30.
Also, the fact that I have been saving my first kiss for my future husband is no longer cute now that I’m 30. I may or may not have googled “How to Kiss” a few months ago.
Hi Lucy, I think the answer to your question lies in something you said in your letter.
You said that despite going on three dates and getting to know the man slowly there were no “sparks” for you.
It isn’t easy getting back into the dating scene if you have been out of it for many years.
However I do believe you will know when you meet someone (especially by the third date) if there are any “sparks”.