So start taking notes and hold your questions until the end; if some of the advice seems a bit contradictory to what I’ve said elsewhere, just wait. The first question many women would ask is “Why should I be interested in dating a geek? I won’t give you any of the standard fluff answers about how geeks are more loyal and less likely to cheat because they’ll be too grateful (the stereotype of the dateless virgin is outdated…
and besides, guys are guys regardless of whether they’re into fantasy football or Final Fantasy) or that they’ll treat you better than the usual Alpha Male types you’re used to (being a geek doesn’t mean you can’t also be a jerk). Geeks spend a lot of time lost in their own heads, which allows for the development of a rich imagination and a shocking level of creativity.
(Obvious newsflash: looking bored or annoyed isn't the best way to meet new people.)The goal is to get outside your comfort zone, but to still be in a zone where you can enjoy yourself whether or not you make a romantic connection.
A geek boyfriend will surprise you with his imaginative gifts and out-of-the-ordinary dates and experiences. The kink community has an almost shockingly heavy geek population. Ya’ll are a hot commodity to the right women.) So how do you win over a geek guy? This is especially true to shy, socially inexperienced guys – as geek boys tend to be.The reason is simple: Most of us are attracted to people who seem secure and content, regardless of their relationship status.I don't believe there's one approach to finding love since dating online and meeting in the "real world" can both garner great results.For this reason, consider attending an event or bar solo or stepping away from your group of friends so you're more likely to be approached. Obviously someone who is bookish and shy may not be hanging out and partying at your local bar.And, if you want to stand out in the room, take the advice of Ben Parr, the author of : "The science is clear: brighter, warmer colors attract our gaze, especially in dark rooms and at night. Multiple studies have found that wearing red makes you more attractive to the opposite sex."4. Going to new places to meet new people is a great idea not only because the kind of person you want to meet may be hanging out there, but because you're mixing up your routine.