That can quickly lead to the hopes that the next guy will be “the one.” Great post, as usual!Welcome to Nudist Dating Nudist Dating is the premier online personals site for Nudists.
It’s the difference in feeling between losing a million dollars (devastating) vs.
Or he could seem like a great guy, make a great effort for you, and then realize, when it’s time to commit, that he’s just not ready for a commitment.
The point is that, by getting too excited about a promising dating prospect, you’re emotionally setting yourself up for heartbreak. When you choose to be devastated by a man who is NOT your boyfriend, what you’re really doing is holding onto the loss of your fantasy.
So, when my now-fiance announced pretty early on that he wanted to be my boyfriend, I was in a state of very pleasant shock.
I think all of the fantasizing becomes a problem because so many of us have turned to online dating when we’re already desperate for a relationship.