Believe it or not, women hate being put on a pedestal!When you put women on pedestals, you see them as an overly valued commodity and not as a regular human being, which further pushes her away and into the arms of another man who respects himself.Yes, it’s what women want, but it’s not what they .And I am not suggesting that you go completely 180 right now and turn into an arrogant jerk either. Deep down in there is the soft chewy center of a man.It’s about becoming the best version of yourself, improving your confidence, honing your social skills, understanding female psyche and You only live once so let’s make the best of our relationships while we’re here. This guy does nothing for her except hang out, have fun with her and build sexual tension yet he is the one taking her home while the other guy just dropped 0 in one night on a date that lasted 1.5 hours.I assure you that at the end of this article you will have a new understanding of women and experience significant improvements with women, dating and relationships. Women want men who have the confidence to know that he can have a good time with her without pulling out his wallet for everything.Listen up I have news for you: If you want to be good with high quality women, Take surfing for example: During the course of learning how to surf, you can’t just say, “I only want to surf 10 foot waves. Just like surfing, with continuous practice, you can improve with women and dating.Reality Check: Driving a car at 80mph and changing lanes with other cars on a freeway is more dangerous than approaching and talking to a girl you find attractive.
Being a man is about reaching your own personal apex. And then she heads home and meets the guy she really wants to be with.
Typically, a woman can only feel attraction for a man when she is in her feminine, therefore as a man you need to step into the masculine dominant role.
You become soft because you have the scarcity mentality. You think there are just a few women out there and there’s nothing you can do about it. Holding your uniqueness in high regard is not “egotism”.
You think: “There is NOBODY out there for me so I better treat this one girl amazing because I don’t know if and when I will ever experience this again”. It’s a necessary precondition to happiness and success.
– Bobbe Sommer When you start thinking like this, you start liking girls that remotely show any signs of interest in you.