I recently did and saw quite a few singles age 50 .
Enjoying the ambiance—great crowd, food, drinks, and music—several singles paired up and danced.
Let me tell you, the few men who attend have amazing choices.
I don't understand why more mature men do not take advantage of spas; they're fabulous opportunities for singles.
Meet at a Volunteer Gig If you're looking for someone with a big heart, go to a place where big-hearted people go: Volunteer at a children's hospital, an environmental cleanup, a Habitat for Humanity build, or a political campaign.
Be honest about who you are, about how you will be perceived, and about the kind of person who would appreciate you. Don't use a long, involved list of requirements that will narrow your choices down to four people on the entire planet. You can go to boutique online dating sites that select for people who want relationships and are so motivated that they will pay premium prices to find them.I know some of you have had bad experiences, but the good experiences outweigh those, from what your fellow singletons tell me.To increase your chances for success, learn how online dating works.If sailing isn't your thing, think about golf, hiking, mountaineering, skiing, or softball.In some cities, clubs for singles do a variety of outings—ranging from a night at the opera to sports competitions.