Don't just assume I'm all in because I'm sex-positive, fat, and sometimes femme. "The Lady With The Golden Stockings" is a propulsive, forthright groove – a decisive, deep-space, pre-dawn party jam, emitting golden sparks from the black hole center which begat "Africa" and "Watusa." Quantum-elasticity of temporal equations, bubbling bass, trumpet dancing on light waves, tenor sax serenade across the galaxy, signaling yonder... The title "Love in Outer Space" first appeared in 1962 on the Saturn album Secrets of the Sun.Information is entered by event organisers and may be subject to change, please see event page for latest information.Dating as a polyamorous woman brings with it a lifetime's worth of misconceptions and jealousies.I don't know what the motivation is for guys who try to get me on their shoulders at concerts or attempt to lift me gently into bed.Are you trying to prove to me that I'm "not that heavy"? I enjoy sex, I love meeting new people, and I think there is an incredible power in making intimate connections.If literally the only reason you are interested in me is because I'm fat, you might want to take a step back and get to know a bit about me first. When you tell me I'm not, what you are really saying is that despite my body size, I'm not all those horrible things you tend to associate with fatness.I don't mind if you tend to date fat girls, or really even if you get some specific pleasure from being with a fat woman -- but I don't need that to be the first thing you tell me about yourself. " It's announced as if it's supposed to reassure me that they aren't going to take one look at me naked and run, I think? Or maybe it's meant to suggest some kink; like to let me know that he wants to feed me cakes and watch me weigh myself? If you care more about my weight than I do, we're going to have a problem. "You're not the kind of lazy, stupid, disgusting, [insert sizeist insult here] slob who I expect fat people to be," is not a compliment.
They often come into a relationship believing that my past partners have been abusive or unfaithful, or that my current partner isn't interested in sex and that's why we're poly.The backing track here is from the intimate Night of the Purple Moon, originally a 1970 album instrumental, with David Henderson's vocal overlaid and issued on a Saturn 7-inch 45 in 1975.Henderson (known for 1960s work with Umbra collective and the Black Arts movement, performance on Ornette Coleman’s Science Fiction plus early scholarship on Jimi Hendrix), provides his own lyrics, singing: “Sunrise in Outer Space, Love for Every Face.” With the emergence of this vocal version and the ascension of the Sun Ra Arkestra’s mid-seventies popularity, onstage the tune became a quintessential Ra anthem, a vehicle for frenzied acrobatics and organ-asmic drum-orgies of hyper ecstatic proportion.Basically, that he's arrived to save me from my terrible, sad, fat life.I have experienced sexual assault and trauma in my life.