These are behaviors that you will not accept from your date.
Tell your date what you expect from him/her (in a moment of sobriety) and the consequences if the behavior is not followed. But if you want something better for yourself then I would say to you, bite the bullet and get out while you can.
She used to have a drinking problem, but she's been sober for a few months.
I honestly couldn't even tell, until she told me.
And, unfortunately for you, alcohol is THE ONE AND ONLY for the alcoholic. Alcohol will always be the priority of the active alcoholic.If you think you might be a serial dater of alcoholics then it is important to get counseling or therapy.Counseling is when you talk, usually one-to-one, with an independent professional about yourself, your problems and your history. They also have no emotional investment in your life and so can give unbiased and detached feedback. I'm In Love With An Addict gives you the strategies that will enable you to find happiness and get your life back on track..well as other skills that are crucial when attempting to cope with an alcohol dependent.Then you start to wonder about your date’s drinking, you always seem to meet in bars and a lot of alcohol is consumed.While it may be fun now, it is getting worrying...will it slow down. It is no fun to be involved in a relationship with an alcoholic.