It would help tremendously if I heard what the wife had to say about his statement. Because I am a woman who got divorced at 41, and believe me when I tell you –it was NOT because I wanted to be single again and party and sleep with “all the guys in town.” I do know a few women who were married, met another man, started cheating, and ended up divorcing their husbands for the other guy, leaving the husbands shocked and devastated.I try really hard not to judge because I was not present in their marriages and I don’t know the details.
What can we do to make this work because it isn’t working for me? I honestly don’t believe she threw in the towel simply because several guys started asking her out.Most people throw in the towel when they feel that is their best option. If the marriage is really over for good (he said ex-wife so I am assuming it’s final) then he has to work on his kids and himself and come to accept the fact that it’s over.It is heart heavy and in many cases, the toughest decision a person will ever make. After doing that, he can start to heal and rebuild.In fact, sex is even better since we don't live together.There's no baggage left over from day to day married life, no bitchiness; no fights.