For all the women he could have had in Manhattan (and he met a lot), he’d visit her month after month — in part because relationships in New York are hard.I went to their wedding a few years ago." data-reactid="80"If you’re just visiting New York and are skeptical of a man’s capacity for anything beyond a fling, here’s my own Love on the Road story for you: A certain fellow male coach I worked with was living in the New York area when he met a cute journalism student who was attending Northwestern at the time.
When I asked a New York woman, 24-year-old writer Zoe Mendelson, about what it’s like there, she had this to say: “I think it’s clear to all girls that there is an abundance of gorgeous women in NYC and that can be intimidating. I’m not sure how women handle it, but I know they do complain about it.Until that day she had no idea how attractive she was, and she told all of her friends that I was a genius who saved her from becoming a spinster.”Indeed, the men in New York are known to be assertive if you give them a chance and make yourself approachable (or simply approach them yourself). So no matter what your gender, sexual orientation, or interests, here are some flirt-worthy places in New York to consider: For flirting over dinner: We praise the virtues of eating alone at the bar, and New York is packed with places for it.The longest dining bar I’ve seen is the one at L’Artusi in the West Village, with 30 seats.When I asked him how New York women were different from those in S.F., his two-word answer was, “They try.” After having a fun time dating multiple women for a year, he’s now happily living with his girlfriend in dates in San Francisco.