There may be a handful of sites on our list that will have paid upgrades but they won’t limit your capacities in any way.
You sign up only to realize that it’s going to cost you a few bucks if you want to actually use all their features.
If you have a profile other members can see it and contact you.
Usually this includes the ability to send you messages.
Isn't instant chatting more relaxed and exciting than writing big letters and waiting hours for replies?
The older you get the harder it is to find a person who will suit you physically and emotionally.