I'm a professional Matchmaker based in Los Angeles, what I affectionately refer to as “the Baghdad of dating.”The dating scene is rough in LA (and in every other city, and in every other town,...
and for our entire generation), and I have match-made and coached hundreds of women: from A-list celebrities, to successful girl bosses, to cover models, who all don't understand why they can't get into an exclusive relationship with a nice guy. If you have yet to hire a professional Matchmaker like myself, which I highly encourage if you are in the financial place to do it, you are probably meeting men on dating apps or online (or in real life if you read this genius article by yours truly). If a guy is relying heavily on the apps as his primary source for meeting women, he is coming into the dating scene with a completely different mentality than men of the past who dated solely based on who they met in their everyday lives.
These are the women who he actually enjoys spending time with, who he finds both physically attractive and mentally stimulating.
These are the women who he wants to bring to his office Christmas party, who he can see bringing home to meet his parents, who he wants to explore the world with and make reservations at the cool new restaurant down the street with.
But, to quote another great blockbuster, "He's Just Not That Into You," this is the exception, not the rule. But, whether we want to admit it or not, sex is just different for women.
Ask them if they would sleep with their female econ professor from college.
I know that it's super depressing to think about, but when going into war, you need to understand the terrain that you are entering.
And according to "How to Lose a Guy in Ten Days," isn't all supposed to be fair in love and war?
Ask them if they would sleep with the barista at Starbucks.
I am going to blow your mind right now and magically read all of your guy friends' minds: the answer is YES. A majority of straight, single men would sleep with a majority of women.