'Yes ladies it's nice when a man pays but on an arrangement to meet, don't have the expectation that he should pay,' she said.'And guys, women aren't using you if you are paying.If you do want to offer and you’re okay with him accepting, do ask if you can contribute. She can offer to pick up the tab if they go somewhere after dinner for drinks.
My name is Grace and I will be posting weekly posts on Volare Creative! Feel free to leave your thoughts and comments down below! This is a topic that would often spark a lot of debate. It’s unfair if the guy always have to pay because dates aren’t cheap (unless all you do is go for coffee, haha).
That’s when the woman might buy concert tickets, treats him to dinners at her place, and they take turns paying for stuff.
It’s really up to the couple, and it doesn’t interfere with attraction and respect at this stage of the game. Sometimes we like to make going on a first date a marathon.
It's someone you don't know.'Ms Ward said in this case, women should not expect men to pay. 'Girls, you have to realise that this man on this date with you needs you to offer to pay for your part of the date.'Ms Ward said men are completely welcome to say "no" to the offer but the offer needs to be there.
'How many dates does a man have to go on a pay continuously for a woman, not getting a second date? And as for the women's side, Ms Ward said men need to realise that in most cases, women who expect them to pay are not trying to 'use them' for dinner.